I have a son who is 17 years old. This fact in and of itself blows my mind, but the real kicker is this, what can I do to make sure he has a map going into adulthood that will help him navigate the bumps and bruises?
The answer came to me one day. Help him build a map and pray he uses it most of the time.
The map I am helping him build is in this instance for his career, higher education, and independent living. The last thing I want is him being confused, overwhelmed, and then static in his approach to budding adulthood responsibility.
If you had a map when you were 18, that you built with a little coaching from someone you trusted, would it have been less scary? Would you be further in your goals today?
I would be doing my children a great disservice if I did not use the skills I have to help them build a map. I wish someone had helped me build a map when I was that age.
Imagine a goal you might have and how you feel about it. Is it just out there in your mind floating like a dust moat?
Now imagine having a concrete map you could see and feel in your hands. A reference point. A way to stay the course.
This is the reality and difference between just having a dream and living the dream.
“All you need is the plan, the road map, and the courage to press on to your destination.”
Earl Nightingale
Beth's Journey 