It’s Mother’s Day, Hug Your Momma Today…

I know it feels like another reason for flower shops and Hallmark to make more money, but it doesn’t have to be like that unless you let it.

Give your Mother a hug and a kiss. Tell her how important she is and remember all the things she does for you throughout the year. I lost my mother in 2008 and my father in 1998, when these days come around I used to miss them more, but now I can think of them and smile.

It’s not about buying things or giving things today, for me its about appreciation and a sincere desire to let wonderful parents know the impact they have made in our lives.

No one is and island, and we all have a mother. The lucky among us can also choose our biological mother as that wonderful friend and  person in our lives who not only gave us life, but also taught us how to live a good life.

Our spiritual mother is a choice, look for her, seek and you will find her waiting to offer hugs and encouragement. This mother is like an elusive fairy, hiding right before your eyes.

Have a great Mother’s Day.

"Baby mine, don't you cry  Baby mine, dry your eyes  Rest your head close to my heart  Never to part  Baby of mine  Little one, when you play  Don't you mind what they say  Let those eyes sparkle and shine  Never a tear  Baby of mine  If they knew sweet little you  They'd end up loving you too  All of those people who scold you  What they'd give just for the right to hold you  From your head, down to your toes  You're not much, goodness knows  But you're so precious to me  Sweet as can be  Baby of mine  If they knew sweet little you  They'd end up loving you too  All those same people who scold you  What they'd give just for the right to hold you  From your head, down to your toes  You're not much, goodness knows  But you're so precious to me  Sweet as can be  Baby of mine  Baby of mine "- from Dumbo

“Baby mine, don’t you cry
Baby mine, dry your eyes
Rest your head close to my heart
Never to part
Baby of mine
Little one, when you play
Don’t you mind what they say
Let those eyes sparkle and shine
Never a tear
Baby of mine
If they knew sweet little you
They’d end up loving you too
All of those people who scold you
What they’d give just for the right to hold you
From your head, down to your toes
You’re not much, goodness knows
But you’re so precious to me
Sweet as can be
Baby of mine
If they knew sweet little you
They’d end up loving you too
All those same people who scold you
What they’d give just for the right to hold you
From your head, down to your toes
You’re not much, goodness knows
But you’re so precious to me
Sweet as can be
Baby of mine
Baby of mine “- from Dumbo

Am I the only one who cries with joy an sadness when Dumbo’s Mother sings him this song? To me it is the breadth and sum of motherhood, no biological ties required.

Time Marches On….

Today is my oldest daughters 15th birthday. Holy &%#, where did the time go?

It feels like yesterday I brought her home and she started her journey of life. I remember the stuffies, the books, the getting into everything, the handprints on the wall, the alphabet written across my cabinets in little tyke penmanship…

I remember when she was scaring me to death being a daredevil on the playground, and now she scares me to death by telling me things like, “Mom, I decided I want to have a motorcycle.” EEK!!

Time moves in a constant across our lives. Cherish the time you have with your loved ones, especially the children. I used to bemoan having to clean up after the kids all the time, now I can see that soon I will be staring at a perpetually clean, but empty house.

I have loved every minute I have had with my kids, and I will continue to make cherish-able memories with them as I get to behold the unfolding of my greatest master piece, them as adults. Our children are our Opus’, they are the embodiment of our immortality.

Emmalynn 12 months old- Love you

Emmalynn 12 months old- Love you